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Irina Anissimova, CPA, CFF

Forensic Accountant

Random Thoughts

Random Thoughts

Extra marital affairs

Posted on June 15, 2015 at 4:10 PM

Very often a divorce is triggered by an affair. There are two types: a one night stand and a long term entanglement.

A short term type can be successfully hidden and, if accidentally uncovered, can be eventually disregarded by the offended spouse (after some fuss) - it is, after all, SHORT TERM, which means no one involved has any expectations or commitments, it is, therefore, reasonably easy for the guily party to give up and everybody in his/her sane mind knows that temptations are hard to resist.

A long term affair is a different thing altogether. These are very hard to hide - elaborate long term lying is difficult and eventually the truth comes out. Long term affairs imply simultaneous commitments to two sides - a spouse and a mistress/lover - and these two sides usually have very different desires and aspirations. Long term affairs are very threatening to the cheated spouse - she/he looses all trust and is under pressure to protect him/herself from further abuse and humiliation.

Long term affairs very often break marriages and, after the irreparable damage is done, prove to be not worth the trouble.

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